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Sunday, 16 July 2017

Troublemaker Swing Dress - Vixen by Micheline Pitt

You have no idea how long I wanted the Troublemaker Swing Dress by Vixen.

 First, there's the stunning leopard print fabric. It's not easy to find a well done leopard print. They can range from cartoony to awkwardly shaded, so finding a retro dress in the right kind of leopard print is like a jewel mine.

Second, there's the sleeves! Living in Melbourne, Australia means chilly winters and unpredictable weather year round. I've said it before and I'll say it again: retro inspired dresses with comfortable long sleeves are few and far between. Unique Vintage is host to several such dresses, and then of course there's this particular dress.

One of my favourite things about Micheline Pitt's Vixen line is the quality. Now, I know I tend to only review clothing that is of high quality (besides some of my beloved inexpensive alternatives that I just can't resist!), but Micheline is the goddess of quality. If you are part of the Vixen's Salon on facebook, you can see how she regularly posts about quality control. She does little things like have her prints pinned and then perfectly aligning them together so that they are seamless when worn, and takes feedback from her customers and then makes actual adjustments in the next batch. She is also thorough about giving sizing advice and posts videos of herself wearing the clothing, testing the stretch/lack thereof, etc.

Now then, onto sizing.

I ordered a size extra small, as I have ordered a small in my past few items and found them too big on me. This one, however, I could have actually done a small in. It is made of a stretch crepe material, so though it's very stretchy, it's also quite firm. I have a size C bust, and being fairly petite at the moment means it's a smaller C. So, I'd almost identify as small chested at the moment. Were I any fuller in the bust, this dress may be uncomfortable.My measurements are 35", 24", 35". The arms and waist are perfectly comfortable.

I am an extra small in some clothing lines, and a small in others at the moment. I'd probably identify closest with a small, and therefore recommend ordering true to size. Also, note that the belt is very true to size!

The dress happens to match quite well with these Rock Your Baby pieces (now sold out), so we wore them on our weekly grocery shopping trip.

Tiny personal update!

I've been at my new job for a month now, and feel settled in. I've passed the worst of the learning curve that accompanies any new job, and no longer feel exhausted to the bones. That's fortunate, since University has started a new term.

I am taking Research Methods (Psychology) and Statistics II this term, so it should be information heavy. I'm getting my tablet repaired (Selene stepped on it ages ago) so that I can start studying on my lunch breaks. I am feeling torn in all directions at night, between preparing dinner, spending time with my girlies and catching up with my husband, and then sitting down to study. I feel that if I can get some of my reading done during the day (psychology courses are very book heavy), then that will help me balance better at home.

I've also started trying to eat better. Keyword is trying, as we seem to keep ending up at San Churro on the weekends. I know that my lacking energy levels has been due to my poor diet lately (not enough calories, too much diet soda, lots of veggies but hardly any fruit). I've been reading Dita Von Teese's "Beauty Mark", and though I am not one to follow celebrity diets, I love a few of her tips. She uses things like exotic mustards on chicken breasts instead of creamy sauces, and hot water with lemon and ginger in the mornings. She also eats mostly vegan throughout the day, and because I am a vegetarian, it's an ideal guide for me. I don't believe in following other people's diets obsessively, but I do see the good in gathering inspiration from like-minded individuals. So, hopefully I can eat a little healthier over the coming weeks and see my energy levels improve.

And lastly, I find myself falling in love with my girls so much more lately. Aurora's personality is really shining through of late. She is so sweet and gives the longest cuddles, and moments later can be found stomping her foot to get her way. She is extremely inquisitive and really studies people. Selene has been accepted to our chosen four-year-old kindergarten for next year, and blossoms by the day. Both of my little ones seem to be old souls (or so I've been told). I'm proud to call them mine...even when they make me want to pull my hair out, as they are so apt at doing.

Thanks for reading!

xo, Miss Betty Doll

Monday, 3 July 2017

Glamorous Loungewear by Jools Couture

I first came across Jools Couture a year or  so ago, but somehow the brand fell off of my radar before I could place an order. It is such a shame, as had I placed an order then and there, I would have had so many more pieces by now! From everyday retro clothing to glamorous, fur lined suits, Jools Couture has a little bit of everything - and what they have is done well. Not only that, but they are made right here in Australia!

I'll start with customer service. The team at Jools Couture are incredibly professional and very sweet, excelling at everything from branding to communication. They asked every form of measurement imaginable. because as a third generation corsetière, Jools has based her line upon high quality and the perfect fit. I was sent several items in line with my preferences. and was updated on my order status by the lovely team that heads up the social media.

I can remember searching far and wide for lounge wear that was both practical and pretty several months ago. I wanted something soft to the touch, comfortable, pretty enough to greet the mailman in and glamorous enough to align with my retro style. These pieces tick every one of those boxes. The attention to detail in something as private as sleep and lounge wear is second to none in comparison with other lounge wear brands I have tried.

I believe that, if glamour is important to you, you should include it in every aspect of your life. Much like a pretty matching lingerie set, having pretty sleep and lounge wear puts a little extra sparkle into your day. It sounds pretentious, I know - but I've had everything from ill-fitting sweatpants to beautiful lounge wear sets, and I can tell you that it makes a difference in your confidence levels.

Jools Couture has several original prints, two of which I was able to showcase in this post. The Sweethearts Bow Print is available across several pieces of daywear from the line, but here I am wearing it in the form of a soft knit PJ top. There are so many aspects to love here, from the thick black collar to the dainty velvet bow. I've worn this top so many times in the few weeks that I've had it, and I hope it comes out in more prints! My favourite element has to be the pretty tie in the back, which creates a peplum-esque shape and makes the top ultra flattering.

The top came with the Bardot Sleep Pant. I think we can all say we own black leggings or lounge pants in one form or another, but this piece is unlike anything else I own. It is so silky to the touch, and so incredibly comfortable. Jools has very sensitive skin - as do I. This means her pieces are all made with this in mind, and you won't find anything that isn't divine to touch in her line.

I am wearing a size medium in both the top and pants for this one. As with anything stretchy, I could have gone smaller, but I like how the medium feels. The ties on the top mean I can adjust the fit myself, and having a looser fit means it truly feels like comfortable PJs.


 Next up we have the JOOLS Signature Tearose Slip Dress. This one has been my daughter Aurora's favourite, and she's been playing with the pretty shoulder embellishments as she falls asleep. Who can blame her!

The dress itself, while loungewear, is of a higher quality than you will find in any modern clothing store today. The fabric is thick and stretchy, but feels silky to the touch. It is of a different make than the above outfit. and glides over the skin differently. 

The pleated details of the skirt are my favourite. They are very flirty and very demure. Like the Sweethearts Bow PJ Top, the Tearose Slip Dress ties in the back for a well-fitted sillouette. I am wearing a size Au 8 or a size small in this one, and it fits perfectly.Whilst this piece is custom made, there are many other items on the site in this beautiful print. 

 Lastly, I have the Harlow Slip in Silver Mist. The same fit can be found here, with a pink colour and different brooch!

This one is, hands down, my favourite. It reminds me of something like a silver version of Belle's dress from Beauty and the Beast. The ruching in the bust, the beautiful jewel at the center, the careful curve at the bottom of the waist...

This is made of the same fabric as the PJ set above, and everything about it is soft and comfortable. I can't wait for summer, when I can wear this more freely. There is something about a dash of unecessary glamour that suddenly feel so necessary. I don't feel like I need beautiful pajamas.. until I slip into one and feel like a princess. This is one of those pieces that you won't want to take off.


Besides their gorgeous pajamas, one of my favourite sets from the brand has to be the Screen Siren velvet, fur-lined bolero and skirt set. It reminds me of one of the outfits I used to dress my Barbies in as a little girl. There is something about retro style that encapsulates many of the fashion ideals some of us strived towards as children, and it is these unique pieces that encompass that ideal.

I'd like to thank the team a Jools Couture for these beautiful pieces, and my readers for (well..) reading! For a short time, the team were kind enough to offer my followers a discount on any full priced items on the Jools site! Just use BETTYDOLL30 to receive 30% off your order. Discounts like these are especially exciting with higher end brands like this, because it means you can grab an item or two and make extra sure you love it before fully investing into a pricier brand - but trust me, you'll want more. I know I do.

xo Miss Betty Doll


Saturday, 24 June 2017

Top 5 Ways to Balance It All

If we were to describe this generation in one word, it would probably be "busy". Even when we are sitting around, seemingly doing nothing, we are probably connecting, virtually, with people all over the world. Couple that with the cost of living and extended working hours, with online schools and parents who want to "have it all", and you have the very essence of busy. Combine all of this with the bombardment we face every day of noise, pressure, and people, and you can add "stressed" into the mix of accurate describers for most of the people we know and love.

I feel that mothers, in particular, face a unique set of challenges in our busy world. We want to be educated. We want to have a successful career. We want to raise kind and loving children and spend time with them. But how? How do we take the pressures hurled at us on a daily basis and squeeze in everything we want to achieve?

Currently, I am working full time, raising a one and three year old, studying nearly full time, running a household and blogging. Many mothers are in similar boats. I've looked at the forums of my University and seen some women say that they wake up at 5am to squeeze in study time before work, so that they aren't missing out on time with their children.

These are the top few ways I squeeze a lot of activities into the hours I am given every day.

1. Recognise Your Limits

Prior to applying for a full time gig, I had a good think about what my current workload was like. I thought about how many units I was taking at University, how often I blog, how much time I wanted to spend with my children, and how much time I'd be able to take for myself. I made plans and alternatives for every single area of my life that is important to me. One was the blog itself - I asked my husband if he'd mind taking outfit photos for me when we were out with the girls, so that I could combine family time and blog time into one. Next, I worked out how much time I was spending on University per week and whether there would be charges if I decided to drop down to two or one classes from the three I was on (I ended up at two, and it's working wonderfully so far). I wrote down all of the tasks involved in running this household and split them evenly with my husband (who also works full time), and then decided I would hire a cleaner once a week if it came to be too much.

By having a thorough understanding of what I do day to day, how much energy I have and what makes me happy, I have been able to have a fairly balanced load.

2. Self Care

I can remember holding my mother's hand as a child and feeling how soft it was. She has always been meticulous about applying pretty-smelling hand lotions. Her hair was always done and her clothing always polished. Even as a very tiny girl, I recognized that she took better care of herself than many others did - and I respected it. I could see that the time she took to care for herself resulted in a more patient mother that had more quality time to dedicate to me.

A mother's tenancy is to sacrifice - Why buy clothes for myself when I can buy it for the kids? Why treat myself to a message when I could get my child a treat?

If you want to be the best mother you can be, you're going to have to fight that urge from time to time. Every couple of weeks, do a face mask. Put the kids to bed and take a Lush bath. Buy that pretty, lace lingerie set you've had your eye on. It's a little like the way we are told to put our own oxygen masks on before helping others - help yourself first, so that you are a whole, refreshed person that can actually help others in a meaningful way!

If you are squeezing a million and one tasks into a day and not taking any time for yourself, you are going to burn out. Those that consistently have a lot on their plate know what I am talking about - slurring words, running into walls, forgetting things. It's all a normal part of burnout, but burnout isn't normal! So don't let it happen. Take time to breathe.

3. Routine

Routine is very important for getting the most out of a busy day. Most days, I wake up, go to work in the heart of the Melbourne CBD, come home, make dinner, play with my girls, do their bedtime routine, and then sit down to study at 8pm. No one messes with my study time. I have my pretty Cinderella coffee mug full of hot coffee, my music and my blanket that I keep near the computer on chilly nights. All of those things signal to my body that it's time to settle down and study.

If you have commitments outside of work, and you want to keep up with them, generally doing it "now and then" isn't quite enough. Make special time for each area of your life.

4. Family Time

For mothers who work full time, we live for the weekend in ways we never did before children. Weekend means family time. Make it good quality family time!! Don't sit around the house all weekend. Go somewhere and do something.

I follow a blog called Mama Knows West, and it has great ideas about all kids of child-friendly activities and food hot spots that we often go to.  I can guarantee you there is a similar resource for just about any place you might live - especially for those of you in the US. Ah, the beauty of the internet.

 (Us at Fairy Park a few weeks ago. We had an amazing day, and it made going to work that Monday much easier!)

5. Coping

I was lucky to study coping last term at University, because I learned a few concepts that are actually easy to explain to a wider audience. Coping is an invaluable tool when, well, adulting. It goes something like this: the more positive and kind you are, the more likely you are to engage in proactive coping. Proactive coping is when you view problems as challenges. You welcome problems. You embrace them, because you know you will grow.

For example - I started my new job a few weeks ago. I'm learning both the recruitment industry and the IT industry all at once. It's daunting, and I'm studying and raising children on top of it all. I have also had family emergency after family emergency happen, and I am grieving several things at once this year. I'm tired. I really am. So, I could view this season in life in two ways: as an overwhelming time in which I have more on my plate than I ever have in my life, OR, as an opportunity to grow and learn things I never would have before, had I not chosen this path. I choose the latter, every single day. I proactively meet the daily challenges I face. I see them coming and say "bring it on", because I know I will grow and be a better person afterwards.

I have yet to meet an amazing person who has had everything in life handed to them. Every beautiful person I know - every person with depth and courage and wisdom - has been through much, and knows what it is to feel tired in your bones. It's how to do a real world "level up". So, whether you are balancing a thousand commitments, a new mother with no sleep and a beautiful baby that you have no idea how to raise (completely normal by the way - none of us know what we are doing!), or you've had some emotional baggage that you can't get rid of, bear in mind that it all starts with you and your own mindset! You got this because you choose to!

I've been getting comments and messages for ages, asking me to do a post on "how I do it". I honestly don't think I do anything that out of the ordinary, I just have many things, all at once, that I am determined to accomplish. Either way, I really hope this helps! If any of you want more detail or have a blog request, I'd love to hear about it :)

Thanks for reading!

xo, Miss Betty Doll


Thursday, 8 June 2017

Retro Workwear:Stop Staring Hermosa Dress Review

As I complete my first week back at work full time (in a different field!), it seems only appropriate that this week's post focus on my next Retro Workwear installment!

Stop Staring definitely has some beautiful "casual" dresses on offer (I'm talking pinup casual, people, which is really not casual at all), but my favourite pieces are their gorgeous wiggle dresses. Stop Staring specialises in a millennium stretch fabric that forms to every curve. They often incorporate cleverly placed ruching and gathers, so that even their clingiest dresses flatter every body type.

The Hermosa Dress is a shining example of this beautiful fabric and clever design. The flat panel at the front of the dress, encased on either side by curved gathers, creates the illusion of a smaller waist.

My personal favourite part of the dress is the bust. As many of you know, I have lost about 7 kilos in total since the beginning of the year. This has resulted in a definite reduction in my bust size! Cleavage has always been something that has personally made me feel feminine and sexy (this varies greatly from woman to woman, and that is not to say that smaller breasts are not sexy - because they are). Losing much of that cleavage has been hard, and most of my clothing fits very differently than it did before. What I love about this dress is the way the gathers stretch over the bust and how deeply curved the sweetheart neckline is. It gives the illusion of a much bigger bust for smaller ladies, and it stretches very well for those with, well, lots of boob.

My one complaint about this dress is something I often come across - I feel that the zipper is a little too long. My waist to hip ratio is pretty extreme, with my waist coming in at 24 inches and my bust and hips sitting at 35 inches. This often results in a bit of bunching in the back at the smallest part of my waist, but I feel that if this zipper was just a tad shorter, it would alleviate the issue.

I would suggest ordering your standard size, as the stretch in the dress means it will accommodate your currently size. You could size down in an absolute pinch, but if you can find your size, I don't know why you would!

This dress is honestly a dream. It's one that I wore to several interviews before I landed my current role. It can look very modern with the addition of a standard black blazer, but can also be dressed up for nights out. It also comes in black, making it the ultimate little black dress.

For those of you who love Stop Staring, they regularly hold 15-20% off sales, so it is definitely worth signing up for their newsletter. That's how I got this dress a couple of months ago!

 On a separate note - for those of you who do not know, I am quite active on Snapchat and post regularly about everything from the girls to work happenings (and yes, I post a lot of purchases. What can I say, I like to buy all the pretty things). So, if you are a fellow Snapchatter, feel free to add me under username: missbettydoll.

Thanks for reading!

xo, Miss Betty Doll

Wednesday, 31 May 2017

Baking With Littles: Unicorn Milkshakes

As a girl who grew up reading fantasy novels about fairies and elves and all things unicorn, the unicorn craze that's swept the internet of late has been especially fun for me! Selene is equally imaginative, so when I told her we were making unicorn milkshakes, she gasped and squealed so loud she scared Aurora.

I've seen different versions of these floating around the cute little cafes of Melbourne, but I knew recreating one from home would both be economical, and save Selene a tummy ache. You see, by making it from home, you can control the ingredients that go into it, and make it (semi) healthy.

For this recipe, I chose to make a blueberry shake with real fruit, and kept the sugar to a minimum (in the shake, at least!).

The decorative options are endless. You can add different cereals (if you live in the sugar cereal capital of the world, also known as the US, you can have some serious fun with this one). You can dip  the rim of the glass in white chocolate and add popping candy, crushed lollies, sprinkles - anything!

To decorate the top, you can cut giant marshmallows in half and use them as "unicorn ears", with a stick lollipop for the "horn". You can even make a unicorn horn out of fondant by twisting two long strings of fondant together until they form a horn.

For me, I needed to keep things semi-simple, as I had little Aurora running around dumping things out and pulling things down. (Ah, life with a one year old...) So I made my little ice cream cone unicorn horns the night before, and set the ingredients out so Selene could have at it! I guided her, of course, but she did a good job if I do say so myself.

For the "milkshake"
1 cup of frozen blueberries
1/2 cup vanilla ice cream
1/4 cup milk

For a more traditional milkshake, you can have a little fun with it.

Traditional Milkshake
2 cups vanilla ice cream
1/4 cup milk

For either recipe, simply blend until smooth, for about 20 seconds. For a traditional milkshake, you can add toasted marshmallows, different syrups, chocolate, bubblebum flavoring - anything that tickles your fancy, really. I kept things simple with my shake, because I knew I'd be doing bigger, prettier versions for photos, and I didn't want a sick toddler on my hands from sugar overload.

For the decorations, I used:
Marshmallows from Lucky Charms Cereal
Stick Lollipop
Rock Candy on a Stick
Rainbow Sour Straps
Loose Rock Candy
Lilac Chocolate Pearls

As I said the possibilities for these are endless, and you don't need to use as many ingredients as I did to make it special. Next time, I will make these for both of the girls without any ice cream at all, and with the rim of a much smaller glass, dipped in chocolate and sprinkles, and maybe some rainbow marshmallows on top. It's a great way to give little ones a treat while getting them to drink something healthy for dessert - it doesn't have to be all about the sugar!

On a different topic - I've been getting occasional comments and messages with specific requests, like hairstyles and shoe posts! I actually have a couple, found here for hairstyles and here for shoes. It got me thinking, are there any particular posts you would like to see? I know there are about a million other blogs out there with clothing reviews, and I am always happy to take on requests and put something special together!

Thanks for reading!

xo, Miss Betty Doll


Monday, 22 May 2017

Trumpet Dress by Top Vintage Review!

When the lovely Charlotte of Top Vintage reached out to me and asked if I would like to do a review of the Trumpet Dress in red, I gave her a very happy "yes!".

This dress screams day-to-night for me, and for that reason I wanted to include it as part of my Retro Workwear series. The high neckline and thicker fabric make it workwear appropriate, while the feminine shape and flirty hem make it perfect for a date night.

I am always honest in my reviews, so I will be honest here too - this dress is definitely a little too big on me. The website states that for an extra small, the bust would fit anywhere from 34-37 inches, the waist 27-29 inches and the hips 38-40 inches. For an extra small, those measurements are really very generous. I would say the bust and waist measurements are accurate, and the hips actually run small as - at 35 inches - the dress fit my hips just fine. Never mind if you have a booty, though! The fabric is beautifully stretchy and accommodating, and can fit well into the 40 inches listed in the size chart for the dress. With the bust and waist running big, I would suggest sizing down. I would probably need an XXS for this to fit me properly, which is not actually a size this dress comes in!

What I love about the dress is the mermaid skirt. The way the skirt flares out at the knees is ultra-feminine and very flattering. The high neck and matching belt also help to give the dress a timeless, classy silhouette.

There is a pearl button closure at the neck, and a side zipper that only adds to the ease of wear due to the stretch of the fabric. The panels help to tuck you in nicely, and the fabric really is flattering.

I'm very honoured to have been chosen to review this dress so that I can show how it fits on a smaller frame. The model on the website is lusciously curvy, so the fit on anyone with a smaller frame will be more similar to me - a little drapier. Either way, I think the dress is beautiful. It retails for € 149.95and is a Top Vintage exclusive!

Speaking of workwear - I recently announced on instagram that I have secured a full time position as a recruiter! When I returned from the US last month, my husband and I sat down and had a chat about whether now was the time for me to look for a full time role. I put my career on hold, for the most part, so that I could be with the girls as much as possible. Aurora is very independant and happy with my in-laws (who she mostly stays with while I work), and Selene is 3 now and very much fine without me for most of the day. With almost a year of my psychology degree under my belt, I decided to put that knowledge to use in the recruitment industry.

For those that have asked - yes, I am still studying and will definitely continue to do so! I find my major absolutely fascinating, and actually enjoy sitting down at night to learn more about it.

I am actually very excited, even though I will be sad to have less time with my angels. Giving myself "me" time is not something I am very good at, nor is acknowledging my own accomplishments a strong suit of mine. I feel that having hour long lunch breaks to myself, in which I can get a quick massage or, you know, eat food before it goes cold, will actually be good for me. I am also very driven and like to stay busy, so being in a role where those things are rewarded will be wonderful!

I am planning on doing a few posts on self-care. I have experienced burn out more than once this year, and counteracting my busy lifestyle with time for myself is really important. I would love to share ideas on how to do this with my little following :)

Thanks for reading!

xo, Miss Betty Doll

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